October 16, 2009

The Family Circus

I know this isn't my place in life and I rarely see anything of what is going on but thanks to my GF I do know who Jon and Kate are. Now with that said I learned a while a go that they have eight kids. Then almost as long ago I learned that their marriage is in shambles. Then today on MSN I learned that it is still a hot topic. I mean who sued who, who slept with who, yadda yadda.

I thought about this for a bit and I started to draw comparisons with my own family circus. Yes my situation with my daughter is not ideal. Her mother and I squabble over everything and the unfortunate thing is I know our daughter knows all about it. I get sick of fighting and I get sick at that thought that things are rough. However I frequently come across some sobering revelations that things aren't that bad. Jon and Kate are one of them.

I couldn't imagine living in the public eye. I am sure they needed the cash from the show at the start but I also think fame has affected them in ways we cannot perceive. If you watch the show you can learn that Kate has always been a bit of a bitch and at times seems two faced. Jon on the other hand has seemed unhappy for the longest time but putting on a good show.

Originally I thought about the benefits of the show for the kids. I thought wow they would have this amazing documentation of their lives. It seemed like an opportunity that no one would get to look back on. Now I am thinking that all the show will do is build up bad blood. They can read into what ever mom and dad said and maybe create some idea that the show was either faked ie. renewing vows and less than a year later separate, or maybe torment them as they deal with their later life issues.

Now I think a lot of this could have been avoided if people in the situations can calm themselves down. I know its tough and I can't imagine what it is like with the fame, but seriously both of them need to grow up. Stop publicizing who did what and blaming the other and suing for this and stop being a general asshole towards everybody. Thanks to your TV appearances and late night romps your children can learn all about how each of you were complete idiots and likely didn't give a shit about them. After all if you two really wanted to make thing better for your children you would stop doing what your doing and deal with things as quietly as possible and move on.

So as I said the times I get really pissed off my situation isn't so bad. However it takes two sides to come to terms and realize that one should not be out their to trample the other one. I learned long ago that things should be business like and there still needs to be a level of trust. So this is my advice to you Jon and Kate.

October 7, 2009

Welcome to Octoberrrr

I love this month! Why? I'll tell you why, that is of course assuming you keep reading, in which case I may tell you why, unless I talk to you later, which brings me to is blogging really telling? Answer no, unless you learn something new then it is similar. Wow, that was a tangent.

I do like this month. It has Halloween which means candy, it has cold which means hockey and all other great winter sports to come and it has well that is all I can really think of. It's not much but it is still enjoyable. You may not agree but lets just say I disagree with you then.

Getting past my nonsensical typing spasm, does anyone ever really consider the name of the month anymore. I am sure at some point in time it had some mythical meaning or underlying story but seriously, is it coincidence or a purposeful reminder of the weather to come. Think about. Septem-burrr, Octo-burrr, Novem-burr, Decem-burr. Its like they are warning us that things are about to get cold. Just a thought.

Keep eating your vegetables.

Emery 1 Mac 0...or something like that.

First of all sorry for the extreme lack of blogmanship, not that anyone pays a attention.

Is this a game? I don't know? Did I really win? Likely not.

More to the point for those of you I don't talk to on a regular basis and may not know the efforts of starting my own home business, may also not know that I recently purchased a brand new Mac Pro. I was excited. Until I showed up at Purolator to pick up my computer and I saw a 2 inch by 6 inch gash in the box. I checked things out and it seemed fine but I wondered. When I got the computer home I hooked it all up and bammo, it seems like it is working. One little issue with the internet. But on our network nothing to be concerned about. So on I go installing programs when I try the internet again; nothing. So I do as much as I can and still nothing. Then I call Mac, then Access, then NetGear then nothing. Back to Mac and over the last 3 days and literally about 20hrs on the phone Apple has decided to give me a new computer. With dozens of test they have concluded that the Mac Pro has a hardware issue.

So now I am packing it up and sending it back only to get a new computer sent our. Was it because of the shipping blunder I don't know. What I do know is that a replacement on this very expensive piece of equipment is very much appreciated. So if your looking for a new compy a refurbished suped-up Mac Pro will be on the lot soon.


October 1, 2009

When is the Bettman Era Done and When Does the Ron MacLean Era Start

I flipped on the tele yesterday and over to my favorite sports network for a lengthy preview of this years NHL season. Smack dab in the middle of it the lovely Jennifer Hedger reports on the on going Phoenix Coyotes debacle. A very public, very annoying and very... um should have been settled before the season problem. Seriously, what the hell, how can the team even operate let alone up its value to be sold "properly".

This to me is another sega in the never end debate as to why Bettman does not belong in the NHL. How "his business" gets in the way of product for us to consume. I say his business because this whole thing in no way promote the NHL, in no way is profitable for the NHL and is in no way good for the NHL. No one understands the crazy ownership issue, the team is loosing value, the court costs are immense and the other teams are paying for it and not to mention who wants to play on or against a team that is falling apart. They have become the laughing stock of the entire sporting world and all for Bettman to show his useless rat face on TV a little more.

This is why I beg the question why doesn't Ron McLean run the NHL? Have you ever seen Ron interview Gary? Ron owns him. He knows more about the sport, he knows more about the operations and he stumps Bettman while he improvises questions. Ron makes Gary look like a tool because he is clearly better, faster and smarter when it comes to hockey. All Bettman can do is retract and try to make stupid jokes only to show how awkward he really is.

Other reasons Ron should run the NHL are:
-He's been a part of it since 1986
-He replaced Dave Hodge who in his own right should be a candidate
-If he can handle Don he can handle anyone or anything
-He's Canadian if that matters to you, even growing up in Red Deer a hockey community
-His background is and always has been hockey not basketball
-He has refereed in almost every level of the sport including for Hockey Day in Canada for the last few years
-He actually attend all-star games and playoffs and he actually watches the games
-He is an inspirational speaker and hockey promoter at many events throughout the year
-He is simply great

That is all I have but feel free to add to the cause. Bettman needs to go, Ron rules.

August 26, 2009

Guilty Purchases

I don't know why I feel the way I do, but I can't help but feel disappointed when I make purchases. Sometimes it is something little like a $5 DVD. Sometimes its something I need like a shirt. I am never happy after I buy something and it usually takes some time before I am happy about the purchase. About the only thing I don't feel guilty for buying is food. Why do I feel this way?

August 19, 2009

Buffer Blog: Hole in the Wall-Possibly the Best Restaurant in Saskatchewan


I always find it hard to blog after a heartfelt blog. In the instance of subject matter, I was going to write a buffer blog describing this and lead into more inappropriate blogs. However in this time my buffer blog became natural, when on the way home from Great Grandpa's funeral we decided to stop for food. A while back while trying to find fancy restaurants for fancy people I came across a place called Hole in the Wall. The reviews for it were better than good and it sounded like a place I might like ie. Mexican food. I put it on my list of places to eat with the lady which included Taco del Mar, EE Burritos, La Casa Maya (sadly, no more) and Las Palapas.

If Saskatchewan had a top ten list of things to do here before you die, eating at Hole in the Wall would be on that list. Located just outside of Dundurn, in of all places a village called Shields, is simply put the best restaurant in Saskatchewan. I have always wanted to travel to Mexico and Italy just to eat, thinking there has to be better restaurants than Regina offers or pondering if my $100 meal at The Creek is as good as it gets. Last night I think I had that experience on a whim sitting at this wondrous Mexican inspired dreamland.
Amber and I dropped $120 on a shared meal under a menu option called El Dictador. This option starts with your choice of three appetizers from their selection. We started with a potato in goat cheese and spice, which was really good. I've never had goat cheese so my expectations were mixed. Just to be fair my thoughts were, “Well this is a great start.”

The next appy they brought out almost brought me to tears. By far, the highlight of the night, in a meal that already was amping up to be the highlight of my eating career, we ate some bacon wrapped prunes and cheese. These, hands down, were the best tasting things I have ever eaten. I may not be a culinary wizard but I think Ratatouille hit it square on the nose and this dish was rubbing it in my face. When you mix different flavours you can create something great. I would have never dreamed this dish to be that good.
Next we had a tequila flavoured shrimp and potato dish. Which, in it's own right, was delicious beyond expectations but unfortunately I was still on my high from the prunes.

Then, the salad. When I expressed my feeling to our waiter (the owner-who apologized in advance as he is not one of his usual servers) about goat cheese he remarked that there would be more cheese in the cheesecake in the salad. ??? The salad had it all. A bitter cheesecake, sweetly seasoned nuts, a light oil dressing and even edible flower petals. It was that moment when Amber remarked on the Ratatouille theory. Everything in this salad seemed off, yet it looked like it should be good and the strange blends of flavour made a unique salad experience I can hardly describe.
As we waited for our main course they brought out a delicious filler, consisting of two frozen balls of fruit. One was white, the other was red. The flavour and texture was reminiscent of slushy margaritas except you could taste the real fruit embedded in the ice while it was all held together in natural syrupy goodness that only nature could provide.

Then, almost anti-climatic the main course came out. We decided to go with the ribs, which are marked as a favourite and with the lamb. The dishes looked excellent with the lamb's medium rare glow looking like it was painted for photos. The meat was exceptionally tender and delicious. The seasoning was light and only complimented the meat. This is the stand-alone reason it was anti-climatic. In any other setting they would have been amazing, but with what we just went through, the delicious meat flavour seem very lack lustre. In a stand alone meal it would have been great and we admittedly agreed that had we chose a different main course with more separation of meat, like the duck, quail or chicken, we would have un-doubt-ably been more than impressed.

Lastly, there was dessert with tea. The tea wasn't anything special but once again the dessert kicked us back to wow mode. It was a slender, white, gelatinous square sitting on a base of raspberries. As expected the texture withheld its look but its taste started raspberry sweet with a cream filling. Then in an instant the palate of the gelatinous square turned sweet with a flavour of sweet that I can only describe as a flavour that only privileged people eat. That is truly what it felt like at that moment at this wonderful Saskatchewan find.

As I walked away from the establishment, my experience with the owner of 26 years, the knowledge that the sole advertisement for the place was through word of mouth and of course the flavour wonder of their food, I realized a few things. First off, considering the experience, the $150 plus price tag wasn't so bad, in fact, it seemed a bargain considering that it made the food in fancy Regina restaurants seem like rat poison for the same price. The atmosphere was more than great and I was full. Simply put, I have never nor do I think I will ever eat at a place quite like this in Saskatchewan... at least not until I return to the quiet little village restaurant known as the Hole in the Wall.

July 30, 2009

A Hundred and Five: Ode to Allan Bexson

105, not a bad life for Allan Bexson. Dad, Grandpa, Great Grandpa, Great Great Grandpa; if you are counting that makes him the fifth generation of family roots. I remember my Great Grandpa as a strong man, man with a million stories and a man who lived them all. He had prize horse's and a farm which he ran well into his eighties (and had giant dogs that scared the hell out of me as a kid). He was energetic and electric. Just being in the room with him put you in your place. All of these things are how I remember my Great Grandpa.

A few months back he lost much of this seemingly in an instant. We visited him in a nursing home and although he displayed much of the same characteristics he just wasn't the same. When I heard the news, like last summer when my Grandpa died, I again diverted to the thought of my daughter. She was with us when we visited him last, I realized that this is how she will likely remember him. Any visit before she would have been too young to remember. I really wish our situation would have been better and she had the chance to remember him the way that I do. But then again I wish everyone got the chance to remember him the way I do.

Words cannot express how I feel about Great Grandpa, I wish I had more to remember him by. I wish I recorded his stories and I wish I could remember them in enough detail to share with you all. Although I all my wishes may not come true, I am fortunate that his life was important enough for people to take notice. I can google his name, although he may not even know what google is, lists of things will come up. We have tons of things around the house that will also remind me of him and how great he was and more importantly I believe I carry a lot of the same traits that he also carried. From nose to stories, I hope my life can turn out like his... well maybe not the nose part.

My emotions have been fairly mixed today as I ponder Great Grandpa's life. There is a part of me that feels no sadness, that he lived a full life, after all he was only a hundred and five. Then there is the part of me that remembers him like he was a hundred and four and I thought he was indestructible. Even at such an age I am still reminded that life is precious and fragile. All I can do is remember, think, rejoice and mourn. Things will move on and a little piece of Great Grandpa will always be with me.